My dearest Future Partner,
We have never met but I hope you are doing well. We are probably not aware of each other’s existence, but when we do meet, I hope I finally feel the sparks that actually tingle through my skin. So let me just tell you something about the girl you will marry. She is a disaster, she can’t sit at one place, she love adventures, she eats ice-cream in winter and she loves wandering around. She is wild, she sings like a toad gone mad and dances like it’s the last day on earth. On most days she keeps to herself and on some days, she would like you to hug her tightly and not say a word. She would rather travel with you than party around with her friends.
Just a disclaimer: The girl you will marry will not be ladylike. She can’t grasp the concept of cleaning and she is a very bad cook but if you help her and work as a team, she will definitely give it a try. The girl you will marry, regrets at times the decisions she actions, she overreacts to things, and is vulnerable. She is a dreamer and a realist. She speaks in metaphors and hence there is always a binary like maybe. She has an answer for everything. She is better than Google for sure. She is like those unread poetries and half-finished novels. She has both magic and rust in her. But in those times, do not judge her actions. Remember when she falls in love, she does it with all her heart. Believe her when she says she sees demons at night. Do not tell her or offer her consolation with words like “it all comes together…”, “it all happens for the best….”. Rather make her understand love and life. Hug her tightly and stay with her.
She is a mess but she is also a magic. On some days she would worry about things like ‘’Why Peter Pan chose Wendy over Tinker bell? Trust me, don’t get amused by childish questions rather understand that she is scared and insecure about losing you. Some days, when you get cranky she will sit with you calm you and watch your favourite cartoon. She wants to grow with you so she does not want you to sacrifice your work for her. She won’t do the same for you. Forgive her if she makes a mistake. She is insane and immature. She wants you to handle her immaturity maturely. Tell her what’s wrong. She will grow. Be a guide. The girl you will marry will carry her heart on her sleeve. She is over sensitive and emotional. She cries about everything when she is hurt. She wants someone who will become her friend and not be her guardian. The girl you will marry is broken not once but many times. You must love her because many have tried and failed miserably. Over the years she has been blaming herself for her past relationships. And she wants to know that she is worth loving and she is worthy to be with for keeps. She believes in romantic love stories and all those ridiculous songs on love.
She will love you like a teenager throughout. She will love you with the same heart when you come out of the shower or when you put on the white shirt or when you are annoyed or when you are hopelessly lost. She will fight for you and with you holding your hands. She would set up a new house with you, do grocery shopping with you and also have and make meals together. She does not believe in logic when it comes to matters of the heart. So, know that she would be there for you whenever you need her. Just let her know that you love her forsaking all others.
From
The girl that is madly in love with you already.
Written by Poonam Chatterjee
I am the 27 -year-old budding author, pet lover, and foodie. From a tender age of ten, I found my calling in the written word and since then, has been scribbling away my unconventional ideas, sometimes in the last pages of notebooks and sometimes on online blogs. Writing gives me happiness like no other thing.
Week 6, February 2021
